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Rejecting the Myth of Self-Sufficiency: Black History Shows Us We Thrive in Community

shirvonne mccarthy

We are often taught that self-sufficiency is the ultimate goal—that true strength comes from handling everything on our own. Independence is celebrated, and asking for help can feel like a weakness. But when did we start believing that leaning on others, building together, and growing in community was something to avoid?


The truth is, wellness and success are not solo journeys—they are collective efforts. No one thrives in isolation. Even the most successful people—entrepreneurs, artists, leaders—have relied on networks of support, mentorship, and shared wisdom to get where they are. Community isn’t just about connection—it’s about having a safety net, a think tank, a circle of support that challenges, encourages, and holds space for us.


Black history reminds us of this truth. From the freedom seekers on the Underground Railroad to the thriving Black Wall Streets, from civil rights organizers strategizing in church basements to the way barbershops and salons have always been hubs of wisdom and support, history teaches us that success has never been an individual pursuit—it has always been about collective strength.

At The ReUp Wellness, we honor this legacy by creating spaces where people can gather, share, and grow together. Whether it’s through a book swap, a creative workshop, or a night of deep conversation, we are intentional about building spaces where people can find support, inspiration, and true connection.


This month, I challenge you to ask yourself: Where am I holding things alone when I could be leaning into my community? And if you're looking for a place to start, join us at an upcoming ReUp event—come solo or bring a friend, either way, you're always welcome. 💛

Let’s build together.

 
 

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